Goldendog.....I think it is normal to feel a bit nervous under these circu;mstances. I remember that I was the same during the time that I was divorcing the father of my three kids---my first husband. lol....thankfully, my lawyer held my hand and kept telling me to let him deal with it, In fact, there were many Sunday evenings that I was crying on the phone with him----and, he always talked me off the ledge. You see, my husband was a real jerk.