Omg. The ‘why don’t you…..’ is a very aggressive form of communication. Was she expecting an answer to that? No. Just criticizing.
Regarding ‘Should’ing on people.. Here’s Free’s rules:
Don’t ‘should’ on other people and don’t ‘should’ on yourself.
’Shoulding’ is done in the privacy of a water closet or bathroom, and then discreetly flushed away…..
Congrats on 16 weeks!
Dont confuse abstinence with control.
😘