I have found ways I can be helpful to others without going past my boundaries. If someone asks me for help, I do my best to help, even if it is just to refer to a better option. I had let go of my of my other group memberships because I'd been operating from an unhealthy, codependent mindset, so I've been cautious and thoughtful about what commitments I do make. I have found a particular group that is supportive of sober living and recovery, where I feel intention and prayer are aligned, where I feel welcome, and where my boundaries are respected, and where I feel my contributions are helpful.