i asked my therapist about it but she didn't seem comfortable making a call like that this early...she said people convince themselves they have many things....think i need to see her more. so we'll see. as for our son my husband got really angry about that, quite rightly I think, and told her to back off from that subject...he's completely your typical 2 yr old, shy of new people, laughs, cries, he's very demanding but he has also just become the middle child and is very much doted on. I hope he IS assertive, geez...you need all the courage you can muster if you're gonna make it in this world!