Originally Posted by
LovelyKaya33333 
It’s going to hurt I can’t avoid it. I will have to go through the pain … I can’t avoid it. Not if I want to get to the other side of this and learn and heal why I was ok with an AH to begin with. It’s going to hurt. . . there will be triggers all. The. Time. I can’t avoid them. I can’t temper them. I have to just know it will hurt. And then one day it won’t anymore.
You're right. All of it. As people with some emotional maturity and intelligence, we know that we have to feel it, acknowledge it, learn from it, and let it go. And attempt to live each moment and allow ourselves a bit of grace.
God, grant me the Serenity
To accept the things I cannot change...
Courage to change the things I can,
And Wisdom to know the difference.