Hi Feelhopeless, I’m sorry to hear you are in such a tough situation. I have been there. You feel trapped when all you want is to keep your kids safe. I like the suggestion of seeking out a lawyer who knows about addiction. I did not do that but I did find a counselor who specialized in addiction. She runs a treatment center and is a double qualifier so really knows both sides. She knows the local legal system and had me document my AH’s drinking through journaling and taking videos on my phone. There is no denying a video of your drunk or passed out husband with your children in the background. Who knows if the court with respond, it’s worth a try. To feel like you have some control, start with those things. Do you have family nearby? Are you working? I have no family nearby so I started acting like I would eventually be divorced and focused on finding a new job and making an escape plan. I know it’s so hard, especially with little ones, you’re not alone. Keep posting.