Originally Posted by
trailmix 
You might find this thread helpful:
Also, the stickies section at the top of this forum has a lot of good information as well, in particular this section, Classic Reading, found under the "About Recovery" link:
Thank you! This was actually really really helpful. I’ve been in pieces all evening as I have finally convinced him to move out (my job is much more secure & he can’t afford to live here single) but he’s essentially cried all evening & reaffirmed how much he loves me etc.
that thread is helping me not crack.