Blue. Please hear what dandylion said.
I have 5 children. Oldest is 24, youngest is 12. I have a 19 year old daughter. She’s at college, focused on her dream. She wants to be an opera singer. And she revolves all in her life around that, in college and otherwise. Her focus and drive prevent her from allowing any outside influence that would consume her one true destiny..... to becoming her “truest self” as she tells me. I think I just learned something myself from speaking her words, advice I’m about to take im going to give you.....
borrow her focus and drive. Place it somewhere awesome. Manifesto. Not on this guy. Not any part of him. You deserve that! Give it to yourself.
imagine a speck of dust........ in your rear view mirror. He’s the speck of dust. The one you lose sight of.