Originally Posted by
PeacefulWater12 
Sorry to hear of this chaos in your life. Glad you are here expressing it and getting some relief.
You are asking what you should do. Whether you take her back into your home is up to you? Have had enough of all this yet or would you like to continue a bit longer?
I was married to an addict who died from his addiction, it does not get better, the craziness gets worse.
I was afraid someone would say this but I knew it was going to be said. I'm an optimist. I thought she'd find purpose and change. I never knew an addict before but about a year in, I started suspecting something was wrong. She has a past of always needing attention from men and it always bothered me. I thought it was just her survival mode and that she wouldn't need that with me. But I've always known it was part of her addictive personality. So here we are. That was my next question. Do they ever really get better? I've got three great kids and a great life. Will she ever be able to live a healthy life where we lift each other up, not where I'm trying to rescue a drowning victim while they pull me down with her?