So here’s the trick, you can totally drink. You can drink anytime anywhere. And you can totally get away with it. ONLY YOU WILL KNOW.
Wait, you’ll know!! Yeah, it turns out that HER not knowing doesn’t matter. You’ll know. It will be you falling down. You dealing with the wreckage. You demoralized. You taking chances. You jeopardizing your relationship/career/family.
We learn that all that matters is that we know. And we GET AWAY WITH NOTHING. In fact, the more we sneak around the more we hate ourselves. Keeping secrets makes us keep getting drunk.
The only people for instance that AA says can’t make it through their program is those that are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. So you can do whatever you want, as long as you’re willing to live with the consequences.
Please choose wisely.