It is important to have people to lean on.
Humans are social and without interaction with others we will become atypical.
So, if your boyfriend is not hanging around with you, you should find others. They don't have to be intimate, but they need to be around you a reasonable amount of time.
At least a few hours per day, a few times a week.
I get tons of social interaction at my job and then my wife, dog, and sometimes family and friends.
You didn't mention any other in this post, but maybe you have that.
Sober folks have sober routines. It begins when we get up in the AM. Mine starts with a quick hustle out the door for work or a leisurely coffee ritual on my days off.
Hope these thoughts help you in some way.
Thanks.