Originally Posted by
velma929 
I used to supervise a woman who lied a lot. It took me a long time to just. stop. asking. her things - because she'd lie, and I'd be furious all over again.
Goodness me, this hit me. I had forgotten but I was exactly like this with my late AH. I got to where I didn't bother asking him anything as I KNEW he would lie. He lied about absolutely everything. Not just things connected to his drinking. Everything. Thank you for sharing this, Velma.
Rainheart, this really is not a nice way to live.