Good job on all that sober time kittencat! I had about the same last year too. Feels great, doesn't it?
When my mom had her stroke she regained some capacity after physical therapy/rehab, but not enough to care for herself completely so we got caregivers that lived in their house. It's expensive, but so is long term care, so I just mention it as an option. My mom didn't ever want to leave her home so that's the way it went. She died looking out at her view.