Louet - thank you! Reading your comment makes me realized I should have mentioned a few things in my original post. It has been and will continue to be a long road of recovery for ALL of us. Sure we are all doing well and living the best life we can but that took a lot of work and most importantly willing participants. My RHA and I wanted a better life for ourselves and our DD's. It is certainly not all unicorns and rainbows over here, we have our moments but we have come a very long way. When I reflect on the past I often wonder "how did we manage to survive" but I remind myself not to dwell on the past but to be thankful for the lessons I have learned.