LNW... I am sorry that you are having to go through this with your husband. I give you props for standing your ground about not wanting to live with his active drinking, a difficult thing to follow through on for sure. I read back to your original posts and wonder what prompted him to want to pursue sobriety in the the first place back in December? Was this a decision he arrived at on his own or were there incidents and circumstances that pointed him in that direction?
I ask because, as everyone else has stated, he won't quit drinking until he WANTS to. Believe me when I tell you that no amount of praying, wishing or hoping will change that. Just know that I am with you and am sending you positive thoughts, strength and support while you navigate this new normal.
MGG