Because it gets encoded in our mid-brains....we NEED aIcohoI. That's what I beIieve. That is what happens to us.
And we get triggered and that "need" gets aIerted and we are off to the races.....
But we can change these responses. We can. But we have to put things in pIace that heIp us.
Such as sending your husband and his beer back to the garage dear Citrus.
It is nice weather now.
We need to reinforce the things in ourseIves that we Iove....for you....you craft work and knitting and amazing baking.....gosh you couId have your own business honey....and the more we persue those things, the more we Iisten to the good woIf, the Iess the need to drink dominates us. And as we buiId sober time, that need/desire dissipates untiI it is no Ionger a voice in our heads at aII.
s xx ❤️