Originally Posted by
velma929 
Many of us stayed for years (I did) without their partners seeking sobriety. There are also forums for widows and widowers.
I don't know if his children will blame you. YOu have no more control over them than you did over your partner.
yes! I can see how easy it is to stay and get people look at you like your crazy. Yes red flags. But who wants to see someone they love hurt! it was hell not talking to him... and will forever be.
So you left and you still come back here? This definitely does change you