When I feel I'm in a bad spot I try and figure out my purposes. No matter how big or small. What is my role? How can I serve God? No matter how insignificant something may seem.
I try and just trust God and let him be in charge. He put me on this Earth and despite how rocky things have been at times, he hasn't given me more then I can handle. I shouldn't want or expect anything. God knows better than I do what I need. My way makes a mess. How can I serve others?