Thanks, Sparkle and Angelina. It does make sense. I am trying to modify his behavior when he’s drinking. But I know deep down that I can’t change him or his behavior. He’s the only one that can do that. I just don’t want to deal with it anymore. The constant drunkenness is overwhelming. He gets very handsy when he’s drinking. The constant groping is extremely annoying. I feel harassed by my own husband. And , of course, if I complain, it starts a fight which I totally know better than to engage. It’s ridiculous.