Dee, you have done SO much for all our members over the years. The oops today pales in comparison to all the good that you have done. (((Dee))) We all love you so much.
I found it interesting reading member comments about how they thought they might have been banned. I know that I had a couple of similar experiences here in the early years and I understand how you can immediately go to blaming yourself. But, I hope that everyone can use this as a learning experience to remember to not automatically assume you are at fault if something goes wrong. Be kind to yourselves. I can't say that often enough.
And, please know that we never, out of the blue with no notice, ban anyone. That doesn't happen. We will always communicate with you and banning is always a last resort.