Originally Posted by
dandylion 
Seekinghelp-------Bingo!! (about the rules and boundaries thing).
The reason I posed the question here is to make sure that I am not asking him to do something that would interfere with his recovery. If it were a different scenario...say he regularly meets friends to play a poker game 3 times a week and his ex is part of this group, I would be having a discussion about it. He knows that dating someone in recovery is absolutely frightening for me. I am not a risk taker and have worked hard to build an easy and peaceful life for myself.