Originally Posted by
trailmix 
Hi Seekinghelp. Unnecessary distraction from his sobriety? Maybe, maybe not, but that's kind of in his court?
Why do you think he chooses to go to the same meeting as her, he must know the situation? As for protocol, he can attend any meeting he likes, or many different ones even.
Hi, I do think it's a distraction from his sobriety. Would you be able to focus on the matter at hand when someone who is pining for you is in the same session?
I don't know why he chooses to attend the same meeting. I don't want to be selfish and ask him to go to a different meeting if it will interrupt his process in any way. If not, I think as his partner I have every right to say that I am not okay with him spending 3 hours a week in a meeting with an ex.