Snoozy love, sometimes what we think clears the air, rights the wrong, sets the record straight is more about us trying to unburden ourselves....to make the hurt and pain we feel and have caused others go away.
Sounds good on paper, but in fact it’s so much more complicated than that. Declarations bring along the need for explanations.....and sometimes it’s just such a hurtful subject matter that it takes a long time to recover from the information given.
At this point please try and be a selfish little Wendy and spend all of your time on yourself. You’ve shared the hidden truth with your daughter and now you have to let her absorb and deal with the information in her own way.
Now it’s time to move onto the “Wendy” project. Give yourself the attention and love and I think the results will be amazing. You’ve unburdened your heart and now you can start to heal it.
The best thing you can do for any of your relationships is heal yourself. Do the necessary work to get yourself in a better place.
You’re such a special, loving person and a safe, fulfilling and happy life awaits you.....but you’ve got to do a little work for it...
You can do it of that I’m sure.
Sending you love and support Sweetie.
Croutie