Originally Posted by
Butterfly1313 
my babies are 8 aare14. They r my world. Hes also 10 years younger then me his parents are enablers so basically hes an addict who is a spoiled brat. As I write all these things it makes me see things a tad clearer. I always hate to let go of someone I care about I don't want them to move on from me. I feel like if they get sober ill have missed out and I tried so hard. Maybe its something I need to work on within me. I so appreciate you being here tonight. I didnt think anyone would answer
Hi Butterfly,
Trail mix gave you some really excellent advice. I had a similar problem- I kept thinking that if my ex could stop using drugs all our problems would go away. Well, that may have been so. I'll never know, because he never stopped. He's even deeper in his addiction now. I can hardly recognize him. I'm glad I got out when I did.
Take care of yourself and your precious children.
Many blessings.