He is still in recovery, now 4 months sober, which is still really early, and no he isnt saying he cant do it without me, he's saying his mind is changing and he thinks being together would be a positive and not a negative.
I'm very cautious and Im worried. It doesnt seem like this is a good idea anymore but it's so difficult to say no when I really want to be with him too.
I appreciate everyone's advice ... I dont know who else to talk to who has been through anything like this before. When I say it's a 'unique situation' i dont mean within the community. I mean within my circle and in my life.