Hello,
I am so proud of you.
You may not see it now, but this is going to be so good for you and the kids.
The kids don't need to see an absent father, a drunk father, a disrespectful father.
While this is going to hurt, ad change sucks sometimes, there will be a lot of growth for you and your children.
I am proud of your decision.
Toxicity at any level is not welcome in my home or around my children. While I can not "control" the outside world, my home is a safe place to be, and we dont allow that kind of nonsense here.
Blessings,
DC