Ugh, I’m just now going through a separation and probably a divorce. Our kids are adults but I still don’t know how we will tell them. We will spare them the sordid details.
I’ve been blindsided by him moving out—- he slowly packed up stuff over the last month and took it,,,somewhere? I wondered why his closets were getting so clean, lol.
I haven’t told anyone yet....it’s just too heartbreaking to discuss.
BUT....I haven’t even been tempted to drink at this so that’s good.
When I got sober and he kept heavily drinking, we just slowly went separate ways.
I feel your pain, forever2long. It’s a sad, sad time. But lots of encouraging comments from everyone above me. They’ve helped me too. Thanks to you all!