Originally Posted by
BeABetterMan 
“My ex is toxic”
”My ex says I should just plan better”
Codependency much? And btw, I’m not attacking you. Like they say in AA, if you spot it, you got it. Just pointing it out. Maybe stay away from that person. AT ALL COSTS. Easier said than done I know, but that person will bring you down. Not because they are bad necessarily, but because you are a bad version of yourself when you have them in your life.
Yes probably best not go backwards to your ex. Sometimes we get so used to a person over time we feel comfortable and somewhat safe even in a toxic environment.