Originally Posted by
Bidgdrunner 
all I want is an acceptance that she has a problem and for her to beg me to help her, which would be something I would absolute love to offer her.
You cannot help her. Her recovery is nothing for you to be working on at all. Not one single, tiny, solitary bit. Your
need to help her is something for you to be working on.
Are
you in a program or a community of guidance for loved ones of alcoholics?