Originally Posted by
stickyone 
Saying no is okay. The reality of negativity you get when you start saying no to people. But I'm staying positive , what I got out of there negativity is a smaller circle of people I choose to surround myself with.
Yes!! This is so important, and I found exactly the same thing. The people who couldn't/wouldn't hear 'No' didn't belong in my life anymore. And, I slowly started to like myself more. I'm so glad you're doing well and congratulations on 133 days of recovery.