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Old 09-22-2020, 03:34 PM
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Dee74
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Originally Posted by Flowing View Post
In the past I have always struggled to accept life without alcohol and have grieved it's presence in my life. I know that sounds ridiculous considering the amount of misery it creates but I find myself looking at people enjoying a beer or glass of wine and feel like I'm missing out.

I have heard people say that they feel like they have given up absolutely nothing by cutting out alcohol, like alcohol is 100 percent bad and the exclusion of it is nothing but positive.

This is the mind set that I want and I think I need in order to maintain a happy sobriety.... So does anyone have any tips to achieve this?

Thanks
Like any kind of grief, or change, or growth - it takes time Flowing.
The more I built a sober life I loved, the less I missed the old life I used to have,

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