Originally Posted by
Icemelon 
He says he has stopped but can have the odd blowout if he wants. I guess its really up to him.
Although it will probably lead to more than just an occasional blow out, it is certainly his right to live how he wants. Also it is your right to live the way you want.
Most of us here don't enjoy life with an addict. Some did indeed stay and others went no-contact with the addict. Whatever you choose there will be challenges. I know I had issues that led me to choose my qualifier/addict.
Please let us know how you get on. Leaving am alcoholic can be super tough.