staying with a friend
Things have been real bad with my AS... GF left due to his drinking and he spiraled down again. Refuses to get help. Was 10 days sober and that's gone. I feel I should call for a well check even though he is 1700 miles away. Husband said no.
We offered him to come home for a few weeks but he would have to go for counseling, IOP, no driving our cars and no women at our house... He refused our rules. AS called this am... is supposedly flying back to our area and staying with a friend who was once an exgf who has a home and a boyfriend Says he has extreme resentment towards us and won't stay here because he wants to get on with his life and find someone else...
He is not well. He needs help but refuses. Said he went 6x's for help and it doesn't work.
Not sure how long he will last at the friends house.