Thanks all. This is my first experience with this so sorry if I sound like a blabbering idiot.
dandy if you have any good resources to learn more about recovery I’m all for reading.
He was supposed to have the kids today and his alcohol monitoring has issues activating. He tried convincing and pulling all strings to let the kids go with his parents and not him without the alcohol monitoring. I said no because dude needs to follow the rules and BOUNDARIES. Me giving him the kids for a weekend with no alcohol monitoring sounds like a precedent I don’t want to set. Hope that is ok.
Im not intentionally trying to make his post rehab life hard but I feel like my patience was low. It’s like you’ve been gone for 6 weeks and come out and we are immediately back with the excuses and rule manipulation. So I maybe wasn’t the nicest.