Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
Have you had a chance to read "Codependent No More" as I asked earlier Bid? That book will really offer you some insight into your own feelings and actions / reactions beyond the focus on her.
It sucks dealing with a sneaky drunk. I also sometimes hesitate to leave my home for even a few hours, and really stress about overnight, when I know the binge is going to start as soon as I am out of the driveway. Very upsetting.
yeah, bought the ebook this morning, reading it now, as she's already passed out. About 1/4 of the way through. Finding it more interesting than helpful so far but will persevere.