Nez.... Honestly, I don't really care what he's doing with his life right now. I just need to know my visa status... which is dependant on the government and him. I have a job to go to there that pays me 3 times what I earn for the same job I do here, so excuse me if I don't want to give up on that opportunity so quickly. He can do what he wants, in life, but taking charge of what I want to do IS finding out what his plans with UCIS is... otherwise, I will be here earning a hell of a lot less. That's something I don't want, so I'm not letting him control me, I'm going after a pay rise and that is unfortunately tied in to his actions.