Originally Posted by
kc05 
And it’s sent him into overdrive with bombarding me with a million texts. Is this the right way to go? I’m not responding to messages.
Hi kc, I'm sorry, I know that is stressful for you.
I hope you have turned off the audio notifications for his texts! The last thing you need is hearing that little beep of whatever, each time he decides to have a go at you.
And if you really look at it, from an outside perspective, that's just what he's doing.
Reality:
His children are getting to take a summer vacation with their Mom (good stuff!)
His perception:
Although he agreed to this, knowing full well that at some point you would take the kids on a vacation, when this great thing is here, is he saying, this will be a great thing for kc and the kids? No, he is saying what about ME.
So yes, I say hold your ground as well. You have an agreement for a reason, so you don't have to deal with things like this. When the kids are in your care I would absolutely put his texts on silent (phone too) so you don't even have to think about him if you don't choose to. His feelings/problem with your children's vacation is not your problem.