I’m so sorry for your pain Woodlandlost. I can relate. My AXH did the same. We have been separated for 4 years and divorced for one year and a half, still till to this day I have never received an apology. There is still lack of empathy and remorse for his continued behaviors towards my children and I. I still get mistreated by my AXH. Any chance he gets he calls drunk to curse me out. He has a GF, ironically one of the ones he cheated on me with. Time will heal those wounds. Focus you and what you want to do moving forward.