Ariesagain thank you for your points, all of them. Thank you for pointing out my previous posts. I have looked those over a few times before, but will look at them again. There was a lot to be learned from my state of mind then and the wisdom of others on this forum. She has been drinking for 10, however she says only 6...but regardless it has been alcoholism.
Dandy: Thanks again. Can you explain, or tell me if it you have second guessed yourself so much in this process. Or is this denial on my part, or perhaps poor judgement?