Ach---that sounds horrible---and dangerous. I think it is actually cruel and abusive---to deliberately get fun out of emotionally torturing you. Your misery becomes his entertainment.I can see how this would erode trust in an intimate partner. Without trust in your closest relationship----what have you really got?I my experience, trust and respect are the basic foundations of a marriage or friendship.I, also, suspect that he may be drinking and hiding it from you. They become very skilled at that.