I have slept on it as I did not want to rush and make a decision. I have decided it is actually best to go and there is no need for me to be drinking. I think I was not clear in my post. This will be a long term trip 1-2 months. Not just going for the weekend or something like that. We will mostly be working as we are in same line of work and he has not been drinking for like 3 weeks himself. While I have not been drinking have gained about 15 pounds living sedentary life here not to mention my mother is a bit of a hoarder and air quality is not great. Only real risk is coming back not going there. This is also safer for my mother as higher risk of getting it with 2 people staying in the apartment than one. Will stick close to here to make sure I stay on the path!