Originally Posted by
Wombaticus 
Things just got nasty.
Conversations have just gone to email so he can cover his a##, im being accused of defamation, and being called malignant.
I'm going to have to find some strength from somewhere. God knows where from.
You have strength within you. Unless you're going around making false statements about him to others I would stop worrying about defamation. Accusing him of something in a conversation doesn't count.
Are you ready to wrap this up? It must be very stressful sharing a house now it's got to this stage.