Pizza....the best thing that I can think of is to go to amazon.com....in the book section. there, you can get the materials and Book for "Adult Children of Alcoholics". Do you know that there is a group for "Adult Children of Alcoholics".?
by reading these materials, you will see how the dynamics of living/having an alcoholic parent damages the emotional development of the children.
the material will sometimes be called---"Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families"...….
Of course, other posters may have good ideas for you, also......