I think AA is like any other religion. There is a core of usefulness and truth that eventually gets wrapped up, or was wrapped up from the beginning, in a dogmatic super structure of power dynamics, hierarchies and practices. The release from the craving is a deeper conformity to the alcoholic society in its microcosm. This is like one surrender. Quit struggling. Or, leave it behind and understand you have choice to build your life unbound by fear, false connection, the sense that you are doing something wrong or are of the wrong opinion.