It just hit me...
I just thought of this, and it really put a realization of it all for me - "His master is the drug. And it will do with him what it wants."
I went and talked with him last night... he knows my boundary, about sleeping with anyone else, while he's pseudo-with me, or a relationship, whatever it may be... he kept saying over n over again, but it didn't happen... my response was, only because she said no...
tonight, he is at a party, with her... because she invited him, and it will have his beloved drug...
I have to keep in mind, tho he may say all these sweet things to me, his drug, and whoever he gets it from, will always take top spot...