What is going on is the “alcoholic matrix”. And you can choose the red pill or the blue pill ... but our eyes being opened makes for a big reality check!

First... there was a wise poster who once said on this forum “you can wring the alcohol out of an asshat and all you have left is a sober asshat”.

As loved ones we tend to Pollyannaize our situation that once the alcohol is removed our Prince Charming gallops to our side and will fall to his knees apologizing for years of insanity and abuse and we ride off in the sunset to eternal bliss. And that happens quickly minus alcohol!

Sadly... that is not common... in fact never heard of that around these parts.

if you strapped him down and pinned his eyes open and had someone scream at him 24 hours a day “WAKE UP!!!!” It likes lipstick on a pig. It’s annoys the pig.

No one controls another person “wake up” ... all we can do is detach and work on our own wake up! Recovering ourself, our life, our happiness, purpose, direction and dignity with or without the qualifier is the healthy route.

Detach... ignore the quacking!. Get into serious personal recovery. Heal... and More will be revealed!

Trust me... let go of waking him up! They are willfully blind for a reason😉