^Great post.
One comment about plans: they should be specific, and they can be adjusted.
I went to 82 meetings in 90 days when I first quit drinking. Over these 4 yrs, my meeting attendance has fluctuated and rarely meets 6 or 7 a wk (ie daily) - and I've adjusted time of day and location around the other things in my life. But I still go. So there's the specific, and the adjustable parts in this one example.
Starting somewhere is the point. Not drinking, then the huge question: what do I do instead?
That's why finding a plan and starting it is the whole point of us broken records who keep bringing it up
