My ex mother in law passed away Thursday and her funeral was today. She was one of those radiant people that brings everyone together. I knew it was going to be hard for my ex AH. He’s in such a bad place right now. His family all know he has problems, but I don’t think they realized the severity until today. At least 15 people pulled me aside to ask about him because he’s so jaundiced. He almost looks green.

I don’t know what to do. Obviously I can’t make him get help. Tried that for years. It ended in divorce. I try to respect that; and his privacy, but all I can think about is having to tell our 6 and 3 year old that he is dead. Do I say something? He can tell me to F@!& off but at least I tried.