Originally Posted by
JScatt 
Hi SVA! Wow! 1060 days sober, that incredible, congrats!
So sorry to read what you'er going through.
I often over think things and your situation has me wondering why:
1) Your wife left her phone unattended knowing "he" could call anytime and you might see it
2)She confesses to everything rather quickly
3) She arranges for counseling
Perhaps she wants some attention? I have no clue as to how you two got along before you"found out" Maybe something to think about.
Your probably onto something with the attention part, not sure exactly what she needs though as I am always there for her. I am sure this will all make better sense after Thursday. I have been really careful not to do or say anything that I will regret later. Things would have been very different if I was still drinking.