AB
You definitely seem to have a very good & upbeat attitude going for you. Its definitely important.
I wish you the best of luck with your major move & new chapter in your life. I hope it all works out well for you.
Yeah at times we all feel sad, confused, angry etc. It softens with time. For example down the road you might get angry but not as angry as you once did.
My story isn't new. Its been going on now for many years. Yes over all the years, she caused a lot of pain for me. But I am also responsible. It takes two to tango. I no longer have & do not want a front row seat to any of it. I no longer tango with her. But its still very difficult to hear about destruction even if you are not right there with them.
I have a very busy professional work life. I stay very focused on it. So I guess other than my major situation with her I don't have other major or difficult problems in life.
Just have the one sociopath addict terminator problem. LOL